When Harry Met Sally...UK Style

"One Day" (Vintage, 2009), by the English writer David Nicholls, tells the story of Dexter and Emma, who had a very brief fling just as they were graduating from college in 1988, and then for almost two decades had a long, bumpy, but always connected friendship. They each had their own romances and even marriages, but their friendship always continued, with undercurrents of something more. Then finally...well, I won't spoil the suspense, in case you read the novel yourself. The unifying structure, which is somewhat gimmicky but doesn't come across that way, is that each chapter takes place on July 15 of a given year: 1988, 1989, 1990, and so on. Each July 15 is a kind of "checking in" as to how Emma's and Dexter's lives are going, and how they intersect. Part of the appeal of the book is watching these characters as they get older, (very slowly, and with many stops and starts) figure out what they want to do with their lives, have both failures and successes in their careers, deal with illnesses and deaths in their families, watch their friends become married and settled and suburban, sometimes drink far too much, make late night calls to each other, write each other long letters, and always consider each other their best friend, the one person they really want to talk to when things are very good or very bad. Sometimes the characters -- especially Dexter -- are very annoying and make bad decisions, yet somehow we root for them to find happiness, individually and -- we hope -- together. Sometimes the book is larky and funny, and other times sobering and saddening. But the author's best feat is that he makes us really care about the two characters. An absorbing novel.